Fear TV -> Fear Based Life -> No Life

Over the millennia we have been risk takers and adventurers. Today, we’re a people of fear. We live in fear, thrive on fear. We fear our neighbors, all strangers, and most of the people we know and work with.

Fear is a vital part of our ability to survive. Lacking fear can lead to a quick demise. The problem with fear mongering, and fear television, is our brains do not separate fact from fantasy. It’s all the same to our brain. Eventually it becomes how we see the world.

Fear sells. Fear gets ratings. Fear generates conversation. Fear makes the news. Fear keeps oppressive governments in business. Fear is real, and we are tuned into fear.

Scrolling through the offerings on my television this morning, I became aware just how entrenched we are in fear. Here is an overview of Fear that was available at 11:00 today:

Ever Wonder why your world is so scary?

“The Predator, Dead Man on Campus, Flirting With Disaster, Warning Sign, Stakeout, 16 Shots, The Others, Jeepers Creepers 2, Fallen, Psycho: The Shocking Truth, Psycho Brother In Law, Reeker, Fatal Attraction, Paranormal Lockdown, Air Warriors, Codes and Conspiracies, Homicide City, Monster Quest, NCIS.”

Full nineteen different channels of Fear Television. And many of these just for this hour. Several are repeated through the day, and into the week. I imagine that by 11:00 AM, one has had their fill of talking heads, the weather, and politics. Fear is all that is left.

Sure bad things happen, people die in horrible ways. These instances are the exception and not the rule. Talking to your neighbor does not make them a psychopath. Smiling and saying hello to someone at a store your frequent does not turn that person into a stalker intent on homicide.

Living a fear based life, is not living, it is existing. Quit saturating yourself in fear, and start saturating yourself in life. The more people you meet and become friends with, the safer you are, the safer your neighborhood, the safer your city. Save your fear for real possibilities, not every day life.

Fear Monger No More

I think sharing a smile with a stranger is something most of us have been conditioned out of doing.

When we are little we had to watch out for the Man offering us candy.

As we grew older, we learned to be scared of looking at a stranger because they were probably crazy, a molester, a rapist, or a general purpose maniac.

As we get even older, we see robbers and murderers in every other person, even our neighbors.

We have been conditioned to fear strangers almost since we were old enough to talk.

Our world would be a much friendlier place, if we realize we do not need to live a fear based life.

Once each day smile at a stranger like you mean it, and say, “Good day”. You might even save someone with your smile. More has been done with less.

Smiles are free and make the world a warmer place to be

Smiles are free and make the world a warmer place to be