Names, Dates, and Notes in one place

This is primarily a how to for creating a simple yet powerful name, address, phone numbers, and dates database using a mac. If you use a Windows or Linux based computer, you can follow along substituting a favorite program. If you use windows Resoph Notes can be used the same way. With Linux there are multiple programs that store and retrieve notes which you can use use.

Using syncing software that places your information on all your electronics is good for some people. Some people do not need that accessibility. Still other people (like me), keep information they do not want to trust to the cloud. If you are in the latter two groups I have a great system for you. That is if you do not need to sync across multiple platforms, and/or want your private information under your control.

With that being said, many people do sync their notes on different computers using this system. A search of the web will show you how if you want to sync across multiple computers. I do not, so I can not offer advice.

Of course there will be Eye Candy missing from the programs. There are no flashy colors or borders. No menu on top to guide you. What you will have is all your important information of all the people in your life in one place. You will have all the information you track, like birthdays and anniversaries, in one place. The best part is this information is accessible faster than you can read this sentence.

Using the ultra powerful program Notational Velocity, or it’s modified younger brother program nvALT, it is easy to create a simple powerful database for tracking people and events which are important in your life. Loosely using the filing system concept of 43 folders electronically, with a few modifications, you can have a power packed pool of information at your fingertips.

Using Notational Velocity or nvALT, you can create a simple wiki type database to track birthdays, anniversaries, phone numbers, and addresses you want to manage. You already have programs that do this I know, but if you use ical or Address Book, exporting information is not quick or fun. Plus they do not work together as one program as they are both stand alone programs.

For example, currently if you want to check birthdays, you use ical. To send a snail mail card or an email, you need Address Book or a physical address book for an address. If it is a child and you want to mention their age, you may need to look somewhere else. This will put all your information in one place.

Simple database for names and dates

Simple way to store important names, dates, and notes

When it comes to changing platforms, Notational Velocity or nvALT export your individual entries to text files which makes migration simple. All you are giving up is Eye Candy. Eye Candy is great until some point in the future when you want to migrate your information to a new platform. Then you realize your migration options may be limited, and suddenly Eye Candy isn’t all that important.

The first thing you need is either Notational Velocity or nvALt installed on your computer. Once this is done all that remains is entering information in a usable format. I copy and paste as often as possible from the source. A little tedious but it saves on typing.

I use nvALT for this because I am lazy and nvALT automagically does extra steps saving a few keystrokes when making links in the body of each note entry. I also use Notational Velocity, but for keeping more private data using database encryption.

Create a new note named Birthdays and press enter moving the cursor to the body of the note. It is in the body text area these programs really shine for this purpose. There is a small difference between programs, so here for what comes next for each of them:

In Notational Velocity note body press the left bracket twice then add your first month followed by two right brackets, like this: [[January]]. This makes January a link word. Continue for all the months.

In nvALT note body press the left bracket twice, you will see this: [[]] and your curser will be between brackets. as you type the brackets will expand fitting in the month like this [[Jan…]] expanding as you type. Mouse click to the right of the month and press return twice. Repeat these steps for each month.

Now, create notes for the actual months. Go to the label area and type in each of the months as you made links in your main Birthday note. When you have entered the months, you can go to each month note and enter dates and names of your family and friends birthdays.

This is static information that does not change, so put some thought in how you want the data to look. No need to be fancy, but decide what information is most important and should be first. I entered the date, name and actual birth year if I had it on the same line. This may be important for children’s birthdays. I also arranged the dates in descending order for readability.

When I finished entering dates and names for each month, I went back and placed the total number of monthly entries for the individual month to the right side of each Birthday note link. This method is the basis of your simple all in one digital brain! Add more notes with links using the same process for Anniversaries.

Add notes for all the people in your life to include their addresses and phone numbers, and link them as you see fit. For example, I link everyone by family name. As they grow up and marry, I will know who is who and if or how they are related.

You can also add notes for the future. This idea is from the 43 folders concept. Using the same process make a note named Notes. Add links in the note body for each month, Jannote, febnote, …,for each month. When done create a note named for after each month link in your Notes note. Now you have a repository for dated information. When you have something to do in three months, you have a note to keep it in. Or if you do not mind mixing information notes can be added to your Birthday month notes.

Make a final note and named Temp, Mytrash, Short, any easy to remember word. This is your catch all note for temporary information. Blips of information you want, but only for the short term. If you find this note beginning to get cluttered, move the old information off this note, perhaps placing it in its own note. If there is a lot of the same type of information, consider creating a parent note and making links off of it,  or create a link in your Temp note, naming a new note via link for information of this type

Entering information and linking it is only limited by your time and imagination. The data you enter can be encrypted by Notational Velocity or nvALT if you choose. The clincher is all your information can be exported one entry at a time to all entries at once. They can be exported as text files which can be read on any computer.

If you want to develop your information further, both Notational Velocity and nvALT have a note named, “Excruciatingly Useful Shortcuts” to read if you want to go beyond a basic file system and become a pro. This system is not going to win any glamor awards, but when you upgrade your computer, you will be happy exporting your information is painless and quick.

For general note taking see my previous post using both of these programs for basic note taking.

Paula Dean and the Diversity Myth

The whole world seems to be looking at Paula Dean. Paula Dean’s problem is she was taken to task for what she said in private. The world is full of Paula Dean’s. They are made up of people of every race and color. In Paula’s case, someone wanted to punish her for their own reasons, and Paula Dean allowed herself to be vulnerable using her private language.

Too many of us have two separate vocabularies. One language we use when we are around people we feel safe with, and a second language we use when we are in public and strangers can overhear us. An example is attending a minority viewpoint political rally. You know the one some of us would like to attend but won’t because we know deep down it’s wrong?

Pretend you are going to one. Make it whatever cause you personally would not feel comfortable going to because of what the rally members stand for. The rhetoric you will hear is public rhetoric. Words strung together to show the world they are really good people who’s beliefs are not quite main stream.

What is heard publicly is not the language and raw expression used among the inner circle of the trusted ones. That other language is course, and demeaning in every respect. If these splinter groups thought they could do it, you would hear what they really think, but it won’t happen in public.

One people, one race

We make the world go ’round because we are one people trying to enjoy our individual lives.

Some time ago, I was asked by a little boy as his parents looked on in horror, “…if I was a, ‘real white man’. The little boy said he had never seen one close up before and did was not sure if I was a ‘real white man’, or not. His parents were of course were beyond embarrassed. It was obvious they used two sets of language, their private language, and their public language. The little boy of course, was not old enough to know the difference, and crossed a line his parents would have rather avoided.

While the rest of the world is blasting away at Paula Dean because her private language has been made public, take the time to look a little closer to home. Do you use or do you allow people in your life to speak two languages? A private language and a public language?

Paula Dean is an old semi racist woman who was found out. That is what she was raised to believe, and that is how she will probably die. Her time on earth is limited, and she and those like her will fade away over the next years. You and your friends on the other hand are young. Every day influencing and reinforcing your inner circle of friends and family with language and thought each and every day.

We must drop our behind closed door language and start speaking with respect to those not like us publicly and privately. Whether they are different because of their skin color, sexual, religious, or personal beliefs, they are us. We are a floating little blue marble in a huge ocean of nothingness. Yet we continue to think there are other choices than getting along without accepting each other.

Differences between people is good for us. We get bored with ourselves. We can’t compare ourselves to ourselves, we need someone else. Other people help make life fun, and interesting. Of course we have to be fun and interesting ourselves and we can’t be fun until we drop the pretense of being a different better.

Anyone who has a public and private set of words they use is really a pretty boring person. They are a one trick pony and can not see past their own nose. Their conversation is rarely spontaneous and very controlled. They can’t fool anyone for long about who they really are. Don’t be one of those boring people.